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Marriage – Union of two souls…Wait What!!

Marriage. What is Marriage? Why do people get married? How they can decide and select a person with whom they will spend their life? What if things don’t work out? What if you end up with the wrong person? What if you get the best person? How you can be with a person 24*7 for another 30-40 years? How can you decide about having kids with that person? There are tons and tons of questions in my mind.

My parents think its time for me to start looking out for boys and select my soul mate. So I agreed on their decision. Little did I know that finding a soul mate means finding a guy who is from my caste/religion/fair skin complexion/financially stable/ independent/ should be of my age/ economic status should be same (not too rich and average).

After going through all the filters, I realized that I am trying to find a guy who can match my parent’s expectations and not mine. Trust me, its very complicated tasks. When I was a kid, I thought marriage is about two people who decide to take care of each other in all the situations. Most importantly any two people who are in love can get married.

Sadly, no one is concerned about love. Someone said me, “If you pet a dog for one week, you will start liking it.. So if you start living with your partner, eventually you will fall in love with him”

Like really.. People compare human beings with animal😂 My god!! After all this research I have realised that I am not marriage material. I would love to be alone and enjoy my life.

PS- Can I get a guy who is genuinely looking for a soul mate?? 🤔

Shattered into pieces

Once again, I was shattered into pieces.

Every broken piece of mine, screaming to pierce you,

But my broken heart was protecting you,

There I was, standing all alone in the dark,

Looking at my shattered self-esteem and wondering “When did I make myself so vulnerable?”

And just then, I could see my reflection in the broken piece,

And thinking “Only if people could realise that we get only one life to make us and others happy. So why degrade someone in the name of religion or for money.”

In a world.

In a world, where people practice being happy,

To a world where people are actually happy….

In a world, where you meet someone and want to be with them for a lifetime,

To a world, where you meet someone and everyone else wants you to be with them for a lifetime.

In a world, where I found myself,

To a world, where I have to lose myself and be a part of the crowd.

In a world, where I have the courage to do what is right for me,

To a world, where I bow my head down and follow the herd.

In a world, waiting for the sun to shine,

To a world, where I am smiling and shining.

Somewhere between In a world and To a world, I lost myself.

Why we distance ourselves from certain people?

I am kind of a person who would like to be in a shell if things don’t work out for me. I distance myself from everyone and be alone for a very long time.

In that spare time, I try to imagine how things would have been if they turned out the way I wanted it to be. I furthermore think how other people might have helped me, instead of being an obstacle.

But today I realized that if I am going back to my shell instead of facing reality, I am making myself more vulnerable. There are many out there with whom we feel maintain distance. We go to great lengths to avoid them.

But why??? Why are we behaving in this fashion??? Are they really so bad or they have affected us so much that their mere shadow will annoy us???

Well, the fact is- It is not them. It is YOU.

Unless you let other people affect you, they cant affect you. You give them so much importance that they start bothering you even when they are not around.

All I am trying to say is – in these past few days, I have struggled to be alone. I didn’t want the victim. But guess what! My loneliness made me the culprit and my thought became the victim.

So a piece of advice- before taking off to an unknown island, just take a pause and think “Is it really worth it to leave everything” “Is it ok if I am vulnerable and others can influence me easily”

#BeStrong#Don’tbeavictim

The Only One ♥

You are the only one

With whom I can smile..

You are the only one

With whom I can bare my soul..

You are only one

With whom I can share a bed..

You are the only one

With whom I can shed a tear..

You are the only one

Who can comfort me like a warm blanket in sickness..

You are the only one

Who acts as a ray of light in the darkness..

You are the only one

Who has held me from the past 10 years..

You are the only one

Who lights up my world like no one else..

Yes!! It’s YOU.

HOPE – SOAP- HELPS YOU TO BE ON THE TOP

Positive Affirmation #8

They say… Hope is just like a Soap”

One has to use it regularly in order to be at the top of your life….

Well, it is true.

Every day gives you new hope to chase your dream. But you have to find it daily.

Just like we bathe every day and use exotic soap or shower gel to keep our body clean.

Similarly, we need to find hope to keep our mind refreshing.

So before stepping out, make sure you have your Hope to spread your charismatic personality and be a part of this amazing wonderful world.

Life 🤔

What is LIFE?

A ray of hope….Hope that one day everything will be fine and that one day all my wishes will be full filled.

A series of events…Events that very important in one’s life.

A big web of lies…Lies that you tell to yourself and others, when you put a fake mask and try to smile.but deep down you are broken like glass.

Waiting for tomorrow…Tomorrow when I will have what i want.

Struggling in the present to have a better future… A future which has all the luxury and comfort.

We,ll I have been wondering about this question from quite a few days. I really wonder what is the purpose of life?

Two little steps…

When I take two steps ahead,

You pull me four steps back…

When I take two steps ahead,

You pull my soul six steps back…

When I take two steps ahead,

You pull my ambitions eight steps back…

When I take two steps ahead,

You pull my desire to smile again ten steps back…

When I take two steps ahead,

You pull my yearn to take two steps ahead…

Just when I think of taking a step forward, you take me ten steps back and you break one my legs….

Reflect your dreams

Positive affirmation #7

Gandhi says: “We often become what we believe ourselves to be. If I believe I cannot do something, it makes me incapable of doing it. When I believe I can, I acquire the ability to do it, even if I didn’t have it in the beginning”

Think what you want in your life and believe that you already have it.

Reflect your dreams in your words.

Let everyone around you be aware of your dreams.

And very soon you will have it.

Behave like a king if you want to be a king.

Believe that you live in a castle.

“Your perception will make things happen for you”

#Reflection time#

Dealing with Difficulty

Positive Affirmation #6

“If you’ve got somebody’s aspects in your experience that you don’t like, there’s only one reason they’re there. You keep evoking them with your attention to them”

You will have to deal with difficulty if you think about it.

It takes time to settle the dust after a storm but always thinking about the storm will not be helpful. People say that we should never forget the difficult.

My question is “Why we should even remember the difficult time?”

Unconsciously thinking about negative events evoke them. So let’s just think about the happy moments and cherish life.

Adulthood values

Many times we do things that don’t sync with our values.

But then we have to do it.

Your real self doesn’t allow you to do it but your ideal self will force you to do it for society.

Recently, I came across a similar situation. For a few days, I had to prepare myself or rather convince my real self that I will have to do it. Even if my conscience doesn’t allow, still I will have to it.

Though it’s still in my thought process, I was thinking if it is so difficult for me (as an adult) to sync two contrasting situation, how children do it. We teach our children so many values. Right from their infancy, we try our best to imbibe values in them. Some of them like you should never lie, always help others, share things and so on.

But as we grow, do we really follow all the values. We lie at our workplace to get some excuse, we hesitate to help our colleague, we don’t share but we waste many things. Many times we manipulate things as per our convenience.

So why our parents teach us values?

Where is the place of values in our professional life!!

I wish…

Sometimes I wish,

That I had one person ♥…

In my life…

Who would always stand next to me.

Sometimes I wish,

I had a shoulder to cry on…

Or to rest.

Sometimes I wish,

I could just hold your hand…

And keep it on my forehand…

And look into your eyes.

Sometimes I wish,

When my wish will be fulfilled.

Never ending wish to find that one soul with whom I can feel connected and vice versa.